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Enter the BEYC Time Machine with Richard Hokin

February 16, 2023 9:03 pm

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In honor of our 50 year anniversary, we’re stepping back in time with a series of vintage photographs chronicling BEYC’s beginnings!
“Our family first discovered Bitter End in the late 1960s, cruising the BVI in our vintage ketch, Alianora, but after a few more visits, we were absolutely sure that we’d discovered a family retreat that has been our passion for half a century and four generations. During those fifty years, Bitter End has been a place where not just our family but families from across the globe come to share the magic of messing about in boats and a fun, elegant, and carefree lifestyle. At the half-century mark, it’s time to crack open the time capsule for a cruise that starts aboard Alianora and charts the fun-filled, often wacky, occasionally incredible fifty-year voyage that has made Bitter End sine qua non as a place to drop the hook for a day, a week, or a lifetime.”

Meet Grant Tankoos, Longtime Friend to Bitter End and owner of Soundview Millworks

December 4, 2020 2:22 pm

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How long have you known of Bitter End, and when did you first visit?

For almost as long as I can remember. When I was about 10 my family made our first trip to the Virgin Islands (USVI/BVI). The trip was a family gift – My parents put plane tickets in a BIG box under the Christmas tree and my brother and I tore it open with great excitement. We took my Aunt and Uncle’s boat from St. Thomas on a week’s cruise and of course Bitter End was one of the stops. Back then boats were slower and it was bit of a haul from St. Thomas but we made it. Like all future visits to BEYC I remember we met up with friends there – The Young’s who we cruised with back in CT. Amanda and I were the same age, and we thought the “golf cart taxis,” candy at the Emporium and being able to charge to the rooms were the coolest things ever (as I recall, we got in a bit of trouble for that one). Later in life I’d get to visit Bitter End a few more times – each time it was special and it felt like home in a way. Funny how certain places make you feel connected and at home.

How long have you known the Hokin Family and extended Bitter End crew?

I first met the Hokin family back in the late 80’s – I was in junior sailing at Noroton Yacht Club with Justin and Lauren – they were a few years older but it was a small group and we were all sailing rats in those days. In recent years I’ve shared boat shows, events, and schedules with John, Lauren, Kerri and the Bitter End team and cruised with Lauren, Wendy and Richard. I still remember one great summer day sailing from Old Saybrook to Shelter Island on the Hokin’s Swan 59 BLUE FLAME: The breeze came up about halfway though; Richard let me drive, encouraged me as a matter of fact – As we made our way, Richard shared stores of the beginnings of the Bitter End – his parents and the early days… It felt special, but again, I think everyone feels special being connected to Bitter End and the Hokin family.

What attributes of BEYC most align with you and your sensibilities personally? And what are you most looking forward to doing when you return to Bitter End 2.0?

Water, water, water… Each time I’ve been to Bitter End by cruising boat, there’s something about getting there and taking your tender ashore. A drink at the bar, a walk down the docks to check out who and what else is there. Maybe a little Laser sailing during the day, a swim in North Sound, and a pizza at night. I regret never walking the trails to the backside of the island and getting more exercise in. Something saved for my next trip, and enjoying the view at Bitter End 2.0.

What’s the cliff notes version of how you founded and built Soundview Millworks? And what are you most proud of with SVM?

I started Soundview Millworks with a childhood friend of mine — he and I also met in junior sailing at Noroton Yacht Club. We wanted to create something cool, something of quality that we were proud to make, proud to give and build. When we came up with the nautically themed cutting boards, Rob said something along the lines of: I can build that, and I sort of thought I could sell it. And just like that, we were off. We both did everything early in the day – we had other jobs as well. I waited tables at night and Rob had a construction business. It’s been 12 years now; Rob went onto do different things but we are still great friends. Soundview has brought me a life full of people, stories, friends and connections. On good days I get create pieces that help celebrate the great moments of people’s lives – Trophies for amazing events (the Bitter End PRO AM to name one), boards with monograms and wedding dates or a logo of special place – these are the moments in life worth celebrating and capturing – and I get to be a part of it – how lucky am I?

Do not miss Grant’s handcrafted maple and mahogany serving and cutting boards—now available at Bitter End Provisions. Grant’s nautical boards make an ideal gift for any sailor on your list! You can check them out here. 

BEYC Launches Irma Relief Fund to Support BEYC Employees & the Virgin Gorda Community

October 6, 2017 11:08 am

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On September 6, 2017, Irma, the strongest Atlantic hurricane in the past fifty years and the most powerful ever to strike the eastern Caribbean, caused massive destruction throughout the region. Irma’s eye and her most destructive winds passed directly over Bitter End, North Sound and the island of Virgin Gorda. The entire Virgin Gorda community was devastated, miraculously with only one storm-related fatality.

Just as Hurricane Irma relief efforts were being mobilized, another Category 5 storm, Hurricane Maria, battered the Caribbean, bringing more destruction and paralyzing supply lines and relief efforts. The combination of Irma and Maria destroyed or severely crippled most of the British Virgin Islands’ infrastructure, including water, electricity, transportation and communications. In Virgin Gorda, virtually all homes, businesses, healthcare and educational facilities were demolished or extensively damaged. the two storms have displaced thousands of people from their homes and employment, leaving a humanitarian crisis that will require immense resources and support to achieve recovery.

Bitter End has been our family’s business in Virgin Gorda for over forty years, and we are committed to helping rebuild the Virgin Gorda community and the greater BVI in any way we can. Today, we are asking for your support in the enormous task in front of us. Our mission began with our hands-on relief efforts in the Virgin Gorda and with the You Caring crowdsourcing fund we have created for our employees and the broader Virgin Gorda community that have lost so much to Irma. To make a donation, you can visit our fund by clicking the link here. 100% of the proceeds will go to rebuilding lives of a community that we all share a love for. The community will be grateful for every contribution; no amount is too small.

For those partners and friends of Bitter End who would like to support our efforts on a larger scale, be it individually or through corporate contributions, we have established a donor advised fund, known as the Bitter End Irma Relief Fund in partnership with The Resource Foundation to coordinate disaster relief efforts in Virgin Gorda. The Resource Foundation is a NY based non-profit organization that partners with local organizations to provide long‐term reconstruction and recovery assistance in areas afflicted by natural disasters. These organizations can quickly assess needs on the ground and develop initiatives that offer ongoing assistance in the medium and long-term so that victims can rebuild their homes, schools and healthcare facilities; and reestablish their businesses and restore their livelihoods. The Resource Foundation is a 501(c)(3) organization and all contributions to this fund are tax-deductible for U.S. taxpayers. To make a donation or to learn more about our partnership with The Resource Foundation, please visit our donor advised fund on their website at http://resourcefnd.org/funds/bitter-end-irma-relief-fund/For more information on making a donation or the work we are doing in the region, please contact Kerri Quinn Jaffe, our Chief Marketing Officer at 203-656-5008 or kjaffe@beyc.com.

Throughout these challenging circumstances, it has become even more apparent that Bitter End is far more than a travel destination. It has reminded us that the BEYC experience transcends the typical family vacation, and that there is a real connection between BEYC visitors, and the people of Virgin Gorda. One annual Repeater Guest has recently stepped forward with a Donation Match Program. This family is matching “dollar for dollar” all donations up to $100,000! Help us reach our goal and please consider a donation today. We would like to express our sincere gratitude to this family for their overwhelming generosity.

Although it’s too soon to put a timeline on Bitter End’s recovery, there is no storm of any category that could extinguish our spirit and our dedication to that very special place in North Sound. This kindred spirit is a part of every one of us, past and present, who has experienced Bitter End’s magic. My family and I will do everything we can to find a way to make sure that the spirit and the substance of Bitter End continues on. Thank you in advance for your consideration of support for this important mission. And thank you all for your friendship over the years to Bitter End, Virgin Gorda and the entire BVI community.

Richard Hokin

Managing Owner, Bitter End Yacht Club

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